Overthinking a lot
II was in a relationship with a guy who was very sweet to me on face back in school he used to say all the right things and everything seemed nice. I considered him as my friend and like my all other friends I used to share with him, tell him everything and he made fun of me behind my back, mock at me, bullied me.
He came back again after 10 years saying he has changed a lot and made me believe he still loved me. If he would have not said so I wouldn’t have talked. But that moment i just forgot everything. even though I was hurting I was there for him. I got to know he lost his mom when he was young and he had lots of insecurities and I wanted to work things out.
He was so rude to me one day he was nice other day he treated me one of his other 9 relationships.
@lumieregalaxy
You never deserved to be treated like this.
And you don't now.
He doesn't deserve to have you as a friend.
No one should treat anyone in this way, regardless of what they've been through 💜💖
Thank you so much for understanding. ❤️
@lumieregalaxy
A pleasure 💜
Hi Lumieregalaxy,
That sounds like a confusing situation to be in. Feeling confused about if he really has feelings and wondering what else might be going on in the background that you don't know about, especially because in the past he had treated you different to your face vs behind your back. It's natural to feel like you're overthinking about it because your brain is trying to make it all make sense. It's not fair of him to put you in this situation, and you should never be second guessing or questioning yourself with someone who you care about and who is supposed to genuinely care about you. I hope you'll continue to speak about it out loud, because when things are confusing, speaking about it can help make it easier to see everything clearly. I'm here to listen if you want to continue figuring this out together.
Hello,
Thank you so much for listening.
I know he has been through lot and I wanted to be there for him. But I was so confused and unhappy in that relationship but at the same time I was feeling so guilty that I am not able to understand his situation and accept the way he is. I thought may be I could change him for me he would just quit his bad habits because that’s what you do for the people you love. Your actions might hurt them and so you are mindful of those. I feel like the villain in this whole story.
