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Problems in a work relationship

User Profile: funnyWest800
funnyWest800 May 10th

We worked together and he was a kind person until he faced challenges and difficulties. He lost trust in me and often misunderstood me, and he even attacked me. How can I make him trust me again and go back to being kind to me?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 11th

@funnyWest800

He has no right to attack you and be unkind, no matter the circumstances 

He's the one at fault 💙

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain May 11th

People deal with stress differently but it wouldn't make me be rude to my friends. Firstly I would wait for an apology.

Being in a bad place emotionally is no excuse for disrespect.

I would give him space to process it and you can't make anyone confide in you but if they treat you well, you can let them know when they are ready to fix things, you can be a supportive ear.

Do not let people treat you badly because it is a pattern that will increase and you resent them for it and it will be unhealthy and it won't make you feel good.