Recently broke up
My Ex and I recently broke up and I just can't seem to shake the feeling of her. I know it will take time she was just my everything and I need to get it out. We lived together for 8 months to see how things would go and as you can probably tell it didn't go great. We drug each other down and just overall weren't good for each other. The breakup was mutual as we both had differing goals for the future and it wasn't in our best interest to keep going. I think the hardest part now is I have nobody to talk to, nobody who checks in on me just to see how my day is going and nobody to lay next to and the end of the day.
@ambitiousOak5693
I feel this... My ex left me due to various reasons, including logistical, so I've been there too.
I'll check in on you! <3 How are you doing in your life beyond that? <3
I appreciate that! And I am sorry you understand this feeling lol. Life actually has been good I’ve moved back in with my parents and it’s lovely seeing them so much again. I’ve been extremely busy with work which is kinda nice it helps to drown out the feeling of loneliness.
Awww that’s awesome! Does it help at all? Are they comforting?
Yeah, I use work to quiet my emotions too.
@jesusredeemedme2425
Ah somewhat unfortunately there’s a reason I moved out at 18 and it’s still there. It’s always nice to see them but it’s definitely better in short term stays rather than long term. I wouldn’t say comforting but it’s definitely nice to have some noise.
I feel it. The quiet can be much louder than the noise…
It definitely is I’ve never really been good at dealing with my emotions more or less just distract myself until I forget about it. I’m a chronic thinker. I wouldn’t say I overthink and worry about things much but I just get stuck thinking about things that bring me down..
I do that too.