Red / green flags

Hello! Lets list up one big red / green flag each when dating! Lets share advice and learn from each other ☺️ i'll start:

Green flag: When I voice an important need and he listens and makes sure to meet my need as best as he can without postponing or coming up with excuses. Hope to see this in future dating..

Red flag: inconsistensy between actions and words, they don't match. i have ignored this one before because I see the best in people. But it has always turned out that I should have listened to my gut regarding the intuitive anxiety that comes from this consistency.