Relationship Crisis
Hi. I’m a female and I have a boyfriend and girlfriend. I’m a very emotional person and right now I feel like I’m not getting the attention that I need from my girlfriend. I know she’s been going through some stuff and I’m trying to be there for her but it’s been hard when she is trying to get to know someone else. She’s not in a relationship with this person but she’s been spending a good bit of time with him. It’s like she’s forgetting that I’m her partner, not him and she should try to make our relationship stronger. I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m tired of feeling like she doesn’t want me any more or I’m not important. Idk if she feels like she can treat me like this because she’s I’m not going anywhere but my feelings are starting to get the best of me and now I feel like I should only be friends with my girlfriend.
Penting this up where it's not an open conversation with her will cause you to develop resentments and assumptions that could be very damaging to your relationship with her! Have a sit down talk. Ask me for advice on how to talk if you need : )
@intelligentJar5016,
so you have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. Yet your girlfriend is not allowed to have another partner. You don't own her and, like you, she's entitled to have another partner.
I never said she’s not allowed to have another partner. The issue is the lack of communication with me. Remind you she’s not even with this other person yet.
@intelligentJar5016,
did you talk to her about it?
I have but in a couple days I will be more direct to see what’s really going on. Absolutely no sugar coating.