Relationship situation?
Hello im here to ask for a little bit of help? Maybe reassurance? I dont know really. Me n my boyfriend knew each for i think two years before i said yes to him. So i really got to know him. We moved in together after another two years of dating. I recently found out hes been messaging guys about u know and texting them sending pictures of him self. I cant stop thinking about i knew he liked both genders but idk why now i told him i found he apologized and said he'll never do it again but idk seems like something i wont be able to give him you know. He showed me he deleted everything and he's trying to gain my trust back but idk im so afraid *** do it again.
You've every right to feel confused and wary. Your trust has been broken and it's not something that is immediately fixed.
When you're in a committed relationship it should be two people together, not any outside mingling.
I suspect this needs a deeper conversation to get to the root of it. Ask him why he felt compelled to flirt outside of your relationship? Was he goal to meet?
If you feel reassured after that, explain that it's going to take time to repair and that you may or may not randomly be checking his phone to make sure everything is above board.
He needs to understand his word isn't good enough now and that he needs to be patient and let you feel how you feel.
This is exactly right thank you
@littlePlane6412 Glad you were able to vent it out :)
