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Resentment

User Profile: rationalPond2365
rationalPond2365 October 7th

In 9 years of being together i never saw him cry

And now when i thinking about it i started to develop resentment towards him

When were in college and we had an argument he always starts abusing me and i always ends up crying on a metro station or metro and always left me there to cry

and now when we got married i m living with his family thing were okay for a while when i got upset he use to console me and now he ignore me and when question him why don’t you even ask me he says its your everyday thing now i can’t ask you every-time

i started resenting him so bad that now i want to see him cry and i react nothing he should know how crying in front of a stone feels like

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User Profile: CoolInTheChaos
CoolInTheChaos October 7th

@rationalPond2365 Your resentment is a clear sign that your heart is exhausted from feeling invisible to him. You deserve a partner who sees your pain and treats your tears with genuine care and respect

User Profile: Joey55
Joey55 October 7th

All I know is marriage is so darn hard. I wish I had an easy answer. I think Men have a tendency to just withdraw. That's how we handle stress. We need peace. I guess I'm not sure their is to many married couples out their that actually really talk deeply and share their feelings and emotions. That's my opinion, would like to hear from others.

User Profile: Joey55
Joey55 October 7th

All I know is marriage is so darn hard. I wish I had an easy answer. I think Men have a tendency to just withdraw. That's how we handle stress. We need peace. I guess I'm not sure their is to many married couples out their that actually really talk deeply and share their feelings and emotions. That's my opinion, would like to hear from others.