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Hi,
When I was 17 or 18, I met this man and I'm not sure whether we are in a relationship and he accuses me of toying with his feelings and threatened to kill my parents.
I stayed and even married him but I told him I was unsure and wanted to call off but he persuaded me to stay and even said that I could leave if I found another.
When I met another, he accuses me of cheating. I have now broken off with that boyfriend and he keeps saying things like we are over but keeps hanging out with me. He told me to resign but currently I don't have a job so we can't divorce.
Now he has a girlfriend and when I wanted to expose her he said that she could sue me and threatens to use the video of me and my boyfriend to expose too.
He even strangles me just now. He knew that me and my boyfriend are not talking anymore so now he talks to girls or his that girlfriend and says that we could find whoever.
@amicableScarf6847
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This relationship is not at all healthy, no violence is acceptable. You really knew deep down, you shouldn't have been with him in the first place. You both need to stop hurting each other and draw a line under it. You deserve to be happy and safe and you are not finding that here 💜💕
Hi @amanda84
I understand but now we are married and now I'm still finding a job so we can't get divorced yet. I'm so upset. Maybe I'm never treasured for who I was but just for the person that I am there.
@amicableScarf6847
I do understand but I would not accept any threatening behaviour at all.
@amanda84
You are right 👍.