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User Profile: confidentVision4766
confidentVision4766 December 9th, 2025

Hello everyone 

Have a great day and life ahead to every kind people we have on 7 cups and in the world 

I think I want to ask you all about a feeling I have come across.

This might can not be an important feeling or an feeling that need attention for some people but still I will tell you that .


HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE FEEL THE PAIN OF BEING AN 

                       OPTION 

yes exactly an option

I am not here to blame, judge or justify the other side 

This is solely to represent the people pain who have gone through it.

Waiting for your response and thoughts on the topic.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 10th, 2025

@confidentVision4766

Yes.

This stands out in alot of chats!

A feeling of not being prioritised.

Of being an only resort.

A last option.

I think it's important for people to know their own worth, never beg for someone's crumbs and don't let others dictate your value 💖

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User Profile: confidentVision4766
confidentVision4766 OP December 10th, 2025

@Amanda84

Hey thanks to share your view it feels nice to see you and meet you Amanda.

Yes I agree 

We all somewhere or the other way lack self worth.

We all need to prioritize ourselves first on our own 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 10th, 2025

@confidentVision4766

You are welcome 🥰

It's nice to meet you 💜 

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User Profile: AxiaPRM2365
AxiaPRM2365 December 10th, 2025

In my situation, my partner and I recently had a conflict where I genuinely felt pushed aside. When I tried to communicate how his actions affected me, the way he responded made me feel even smaller almost like I was wrong for feeling hurt. At times it felt like guilt-tripping, where my feelings somehow became the problem instead of something to acknowledge.

The hardest part is when you give effort, support, and understanding, but when it comes to being prioritised, suddenly you’re expected to adjust, accept, or stay silent. That imbalance makes you question your own worth in the relationship.