Stonewalling, feeling lost.

My husband has been stonewalling me since yesterday.  We were having a good day, and we were hanging out at a brewery.  He asked me what has been up during the week, and I said I was exhausted because of my period.  Mine tend to wipe me out for a couple days and I tend to zone out.  He said that's part of it, and I said what do you mean.  He thought something else was going on that made me shut down.  I said no; however, I did have financial concerns but I wasn't going to address it until our bills hit and I could have a better picture of our finances, which would probably be Monday or Tuesday.  He said I've been on my phone a lot and mimed aggressive texting, which is how he mocks me.  I said well if you weren't angling your phone away from me (which he knows triggers my anxiety), he said "okay, you win." and shut down.  I said I'm not trying to win, I felt hurt by you mocking me.  He kept up with "yup, you're right, I'm wrong."  

We came home and I went and took some time to myself to calm down.  Eventually I came back downstairs and tried to talk to him, but he gave me short responses and pretended to be asleep.  So that was the evening - him ignoring me, leaving a giant gap between us in bed that night, and ignoring me this morning.  I was taking out the trash when he came down, and I had pre-race coverage for the F1 race on.  He turned off the TV and sat silently with his eyes closed.  I sat by him and held him and got nothing.  So I went about the day - fed the cats, got laundry started, did chores.  Eventually he came upstairs to cut a check for our bills.  He said I could transfer our mortgage to his name if it was stressing me out.  I said it was our home equity loan, he said transfer it to him.  I said I could take on a different bill, he said no.  I tried to insist, he said "NO!" and left the room.  When I went down to flip the laundry he was getting ready to go out for the day.  I gave him a hug and said I love you - no response at all, he just kept looking straight ahead.  I told him to have a good day. 

So he's been gone for about an hour now and I've been crying, texting friends.  I'm not crying anymore, I feel lost and I'm not really sure what to do next.  I'm writing out a letter to him, don't know if he'll read it.  But yeah.  Thanks for reading.