Supporting my lazy spouse
I’ve been with my partner for over 8 years we have a 7 year old from and a 6 month old my spouse doesn’t work and is not in school and he hasn’t worked for the last year or so and doesn’t seem to have any motivation to find. A new job it’s very frustrating being on matleave and having to support our entire family he promised when I went on matleave he’d get a new job and he hasn’t even looked it’s like he’s okay with me supporting us ?! paying all the rent groceries and all the bills and ontop of that I don’t feel respected he doesn’t say nice things to make me feel special and he’s constantly looking at hot girls on *** it’s very hard why am I supporting him he doesn’t even respect me ?!?
@energeticCe96
Hello EnergeticCe96;
Relationships seem to be full of contradictions and things that are illogical on a regular basis.
So I am understanding you correctly, your partner was supposed to get a new job when you went on maternity Leave. And your partner has not held up their side of the agreement. Additionally you are providing for the whole house without feeling respected for all you have done.
WOW, that is a lot, you have every right to feel as you do right now. I probably would feel the same way.
Why do you think you are supporting your partner?
@energeticCe96,
seems like you have three kids instead of one. You have every right to demand that he keeps up to his promise and get a job and stand by you in every way. Time for him to grow up and be a man.