Tired
So I used to like this guy for quite a few months, we had met online and were friends and all, I had known him for a year.
So last week he confessed he liked me too, I was so happy, literally on cloud nine, couldn't sleep and all but afterwards his actions changed, felt like I was the one pursuing him, used to disappear in between texts and never gave an explanation. That whole week was like *** for me. I even talked to him about it once, but things were just not working for me.
So I told him this is not working for me and he said do as you feel good, I was so angry like nothing bothered him. Blocked him everywhere but now there is this urge to stalk him, i know I shouldn't but still.
Why play with someone's feelings, is everything a game to guys? I am just feeling so low.
@courteousPerson3438
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I'm sorry he treated you this way.
He was cowardly.
And sadly online some people are bored and use other people for their own entertainment , without thinking if how they feel.
You deserve better.
He wouldn't be worth stalking.
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@courteousPerson3438
I am sorry this happened to you.
Just know that not all guys are like this. What he did was uncalled for and honestly even though it doesn't feel like it right now you dodged a huge red glad. You have every right to feel angry and upset. You might even miss him and that is fine too. Wanting to stalk him to see what he is doing is not wrong but human. So don't feel guilty but also tell yourself that he isn't worth your time either. He has already made you waste so much of it. You are allowed to grieve the connection you had but now as time passes it will feel better and that urge to stalk will go away as well.
@courteousPerson3438
I am sorry this happened to you.
Just know that not all guys are like this. What he did was uncalled for and honestly even though it doesn't feel like it right now you dodged a huge red glad. You have every right to feel angry and upset. You might even miss him and that is fine too. Wanting to stalk him to see what he is doing is not wrong but human. So don't feel guilty but also tell yourself that he isn't worth your time either. He has already made you waste so much of it. You are allowed to grieve the connection you had but now as time passes it will feel better and that urge to stalk will go away as well.
@courteousPerson3438
They say everyone deserves another chance, but if giving that chance will make you unstable and doubting your choices then it's better to give your attention to something else and safer.
I hope you find what's best for you and peace.