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hello , Im new to his app just wandering to have a mental peace lately im so anxious about my boyfriend decision we have been in relationship since 2019 , we do love each other, our parents accepted us before lately because of family problems, death of loved ones affected our both families now everything is messy no one is accepting totally leaving their speculations , so we decided to get married in court but , lately my boyfriend acting so timid , he is bothered about being abondoned by his parents if we marry me in court , his family in other hand asking dowry and gold their expectations are far much . I have no one to support financially , i was raised by a single mom , i told him I can't make it , evn though he knows my problem he is stating his parents points over his opinions , what should I do ? How should I make him courageos is it worth trying ?