Wasted 17 months
Currently going through a breakup. Was with him for almost 2 years, it wasn’t perfect but it was safe I recently found out he lied and I immediately ended things. Days have been up and down but I’ll say I do have more bad days than good ones. I don’t think I’ll be looking to date for a while, I think I wanna just focus on finishing school and starting my career
@LaVariaT
Hello. I am sorry to hear about the breakup and about your experiencing a grief and a loss of trust in someone who had let you down.
I agree it's alright to give yourself a little time, to maybe meet someone new some day, but to start it with a "new, clean sheet of paper".
I believe it is also quite reasonable to concentrate on finishing a school and starting a job, as the time you can take care for yourself and your future.
@LaVariaT
Hii! I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing these feelings. :(
Breakups are difficult in themselves & feeling betrayed isn't fair to you. No need to put pressure on yourself to have good days and it's more than okay to grieve. You are so much more than what others may put you through and shifting your priorities elsewhere is an awesome idea. I wish you the best of luck in school & your career.
