What should I do?
My bf and I broke up 6 days ago, and I said we’d go no contact but I’ve been calling him every other day cuz I can’t handle not talking to my best friend. We were together for almost 2 years and I ended the relationship after finding out he was hiding the fact that he was looking at other women’s OF and other content after told me he’d stop. This is the seventh time he’s done this and all I wanna do is get back together with him because I am so devoted to him. I know it’s probably a bad idea to keep talking to him so I can give him space to mature and grow but it’s so hard for me. Idk what to do. Someone help me.
Hi @willingMoon7883 ✨ thank you for sharing what you are going thru atm
May I suggest that you give yourself some time? Breaking up after a long relationship is a loss and you need time to process this…
Give yourself some space too - all that devotion that you have towards your ex, give it to yourself - it will be challenging but you could focus on your needs and taking care of yourself first…
Stop calling him every other day - the reason why you split up is a very important one, don’t let all this “my best friend” story get on the way… or, just accept that he will be watching OF even if he says he won’t, honestly I don’t think you deserve that
Find a little something that makes you smile today, then tomorrow… just baby steps, one day at a time
Sending good energy your way✨