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User Profile: OceanWavesClarity
OceanWavesClarity October 9th, 2025

I have been married for almost 10 years. I have recently started to be attracted to the same sex. Well, I wont say recently. I guess I've always had a feeling. But never had the courage to be what I feel is what I want. Maybe I didnt know I wanted it until I grew and realized it is what I want. Either way, im lost. I want to stay with my spouse but I feel like im missing another side of me. All the time. And I cant open up to anyone about it.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 10th, 2025

@OceanWavesClarity

🥺

I'm sorry you are struggling.

Sometimes we don't get to explore our sexuality or know what is best for us.

Sometimes we are reluctant.

I understand it's difficult for you and you are married.

I know it's hard, but this is something that you might have to work through in a safe and non judgemental space, where you can be honest.

It's important to not rush into acting on it.

And having some hard conversations with yourself about your marriage 💕💜