Why does she treat me badly?
I'm in a relationship, and everything is so different. I keep trying, giving my best for her. I'm starting to believe the problem is me, but I don't know what to do because I always do everything for her; I'm extremely attached to her. She's been acting strange for weeks, and a few days ago she lied to me. My trust is extremely shaken, but I still hold on to our relationship because I truly love her. But she doesn't fight for us; she acts with contempt. I humiliate myself for her. I'm going through a difficult phase, but I still insist on her because she's the only one who gives me "support." She constantly says she's tired of me being clingy and affectionate, but that's how I show my love for her, so I don't know what to do.
@SamuelPatrick
Honestly, you cannot humiliate yourself for anyone.
You deserve better
You deserve the same energy back.
When we see someone as all or nothing, we lose ourselves.
Within a relationship, you need to have your own interests and friends and time spent separate.
It shouldn't be one-sided.
And it should uplift .
You should get the same comfort back.
Support is great and we all need it, but ultimately we all need to be solely responsible for our own happiness 💙
