Why do i still think about him?
I should start by saying he lives a plane away. So last year we both caught feelings for eachother (we met online) but he ended up rejecting the idea of us because he couldn’t do ldr. Then after a year he texted me. We became friends but ended up falling for eachother. He said he would do a relationship and that we could become something after his competition. He had to travel to another country for this competition and when he came back he said he doesn’t think he could do ldr. It’s been a month since then.
Why would he do this to me? How do i get over him? I try to hate him over the fact he rejected me twice but i just can’t pls help
@belindabelindabelinda
Hi. You must be feeling so messed about by him. I’m sorry you’re hurting but LDRs are not for everyone and had you both started one, it may not have worked anyway. It’s time to concentrate on yourself now, doing things you like, taking one step at a time.
It’s best not to hate anyone because it will consume you. I tried twice with the same person and it ended up with the same results (heartbroken, lonely and missing him). I’m trying to take it day by day, but it is hard. Currently I’m fighting the urges to text/call him. I know it will do me no good. What has helped me is texting my best friend what I would want to text him.