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getting used to being alone

User Profile: Jwllyfish
Jwllyfish June 12th, 2025

I noticed that like i lower my standards because i dont want people to leave even if theyre treating me bad. I get attached easily and then if i feel like theyre gonna leave, i push them away first.

So i know that i need to get used to being single, i cant keep relying on someone else to make me happy

I do wish to meet new friends to help me out <3

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User Profile: RainbowRosie
RainbowRosie June 12th, 2025

@Jwllyfish

You’re so right, you can’t rely on other people to make you happy. Finding the right friends can take a bit of time but certainly worth the effort. What have you tried so far? 

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User Profile: Jwllyfish
Jwllyfish OP June 13th, 2025

Im trying to pick up some new hobbies, like painting, sewing, etc, just trying to find my "spark". Been reaching out to some old friends too. I should go out more ngl

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User Profile: decisiveTalker6266
decisiveTalker6266 June 13th, 2025

I feel the same. I tolerated abuse just so he would stay. I feel like I’ll be alone forever. Ugh ! I know it’s just a healing stage and I just gotta go through the storm.

User Profile: decisiveTalker6266
decisiveTalker6266 June 13th, 2025

I feel the same. I tolerated abuse just so he would stay. I feel like I’ll be alone forever. Ugh ! I know it’s just a healing stage and I just gotta go through the storm.