gf breakup
recently my girl broke up with me. said the relationship was really stressing her out and her mental health is bad. we started to have more petty arguments and she was distancing herself more from me. i was worried. the day of, she was super super upset cries a lot freaking out and says i think breakup is the best choice. i unwillingly agree just as she’s clearly going through a lot and i can’t force her. i just feel like there was no warning for me i really thought everything was good. i feel as though i tried so hard when things were rough or she was hard on me but as soon as stuff gets hard for her she leaves instead of trying harder. i don’t blame her for anything i know she’s been through a lot. i just miss her and the talks and fun dates and her holding me. despite the struggles, she was really special and it feels weird without her. i just want to stop being sad and be able to move on. advice welcome
@valya17
Hi there valya17!
Sorry for your break up, it's always something difficult to deal with.
You know her so you also know if she needs time alone while struggling or if she really want to break up. I hope you aren't left with doubts on that regard.
I think you cared and put efforts when in a relationship, that's nice, you deserve to build something lasting that gives you stability. Wish you so, if not with her with someone that will be a better match for you. Time will help healing valya, don't isolate yourself in the process of it.
Sending good vibes!