i don't know what to do..
my partner stood there as someone sexualy harassed and assulted me.. and he did nothing. i was holding his hand and he just stood there while teo dudes cornered me. one was talking to him and the other harassing me.. and when they finally left.. he lectured me about how i need to learn tonset boundaries and say no..
it's been two weeks, he didn't talk to me about it at all..not once did he ask how i am or how im coping or anything.. when i mention it he starts going on tangents about how bad he feels.. this is unbelievable.. idk what to do.. I can't beleive this is real..
we just had a big fight about it.. i begged him to say anything that's not about himself.. anything that acknowledges my feelings.. anything about me.. but he just fought with me for two hours and not once did he acknowledge menor have empathy for me..
im so heartbroken and so scared that i might hurt myself.. i don't know what to do.. I can't stop crying and shaking and im in disbelief that he can be this cold..
@sadbean98765
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult and painful situation. It's not okay for anyone to ignore or dismiss your feelings, especially when you've experienced something as traumatic as sexual harassment and assault. Your emotions and well-being are valid and important.
If you're feeling overwhelmed and scared, please consider reaching out to a mental health professional, a counselor, or a helpline in your country. It's important to prioritize your own safety and well-being during times like this. If you have close friends or family members who you trust, don't hesitate to lean on their support as well.
When it comes to your relationship, it's clear that you deserve respect, understanding, and empathy. It might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how his actions and lack of support have affected you. Communication is key, and discussing your feelings and concerns might provide some clarity on the situation.
Remember that you're not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help. Please take care of yourself and consider seeking professional support.
