im confused.
Im in need of a relationship but i always get attracted to older guys.
Its a thing ive had for a while as it stems off of a addiction but theres this guy at my work and hes freshly 18 and ive gained feelings for him but im going on 16 and i dont think we will have something.
We'd talk a lot at work, joke around etc. even offered to take me home after training as he had a car which i took up the offer and he let me do music and we connected a lot.
I dont know what to do.
@w0rthyxx
I just think personally until you are actually 16, it might be better to get to know him first, on a friendship level, without any stress, and not rushing I to anything until you know what he wants from a relationship 🩷🤗
@Amanda84 completely agree
I think you need to be an explorer in this topic right now. Do not rush into any hasty actions or decisions under any circumstances! In this situation, it is very important to learn to listen to yourself and understand what you are really looking for and what truly attracts you in people in general. Age is just a number, so I wouldn’t fixate on it. Just be attentive and listen to yourself!
Thank you for all that.
Ive known him for a few weeks now but only started connecting with him about 2 weeks ago.
im trying to find myself and who i am after major incidents with older guys online etc etc so im hoping once i find out who i am and what he wants i might take a next step if he allows that.
