lost
I don’t know what to do and i really need help. I did something horrible which in turn caused me and my girlfriend to break up and it was really really bad. Well we now are talking and i’m trying to work on myself for us because we want to be together. Theres a problem because she had slept with someone else out of revenge and to hurt me which it did so much and now she is pregnant. I don’t know how to get past my emotions and feelings and my crazy thoughts and living with the person she did this with forever. i love her so much and i just want us but now i have to live with this part forever and i don’t know how to process it. i don’t feel like i’m ever going to be able to get through this amd be happy. I want her more than anything but not that part this is so much ive been here for her through everything and i keep telling her it’s not her faukt but i’m so hurt emotionally and i wanted us i wanted the plans we had together and now i’m just lost i feel sick and so sad. I need advice.
Bro, if she feels the same emotions for you choose her. But let me tell you something she cheated on you. I don't know her. But as a woman, I can't sleep with other men even if I had my men. What you feel for her she should feel for you too. I can understand that you got deeply hurt and connected to her....But I think you both need to take some space and think about it.