love and bpd
my long-term partner has been diagnosed with bpd. he sometimes treats me with so much love and sometimes he seems to hate me so much to the point of insulting me and telling me hurtful things. i read in some bpd blogs about something called "splitting" and i want to know if that's the case, and also i want to know how to handle those types of situations because when he's mad at me, it just hurts me so much because of the things he tends to say to me. is this normal? i love him a lot and i want to support him and stay by his side, but i'm so afraid of him when he hates me and i don't know what else to do.
also he is indeed a long-term partner but our relationship is really toxic. he tends to break up with me, block me and then come back again, again and again. honestly this type of instability hurts me so much and i'm not so sure if this is part of this diagnosis or something... i'm so sorry.