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User Profile: electriclandlady
electriclandlady January 21st

heyyyy longtime listener first time caller and most importantly an anxious-preoccupied girlie, though allegedly ‘’’’in recovery’’’’ or something. i met someone at my friends bday on sunday and we bonded over our gruesome special interests: zombies (her,) and survival cannibalism (me). we have contact info. i rly like her and now im facing the preoccupied version of being an ex-smoker at a dive bar w/o a smoking ban 😬 she is Very Content With Her Solitude just like every other *** scorpio ever and im uh. Not. so i have to somehow perform the spinning-plate act of maintaining connection while being Open To More but not get Attached To An Outcome and most importantly not come across as the Astronomical Codependency Risk i totally am. Send help 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 January 21st

@electriclandlady

I can see why it would weigh on you.

When we each have different expectations and communication styles.

But it's important , even though, you are aware of your own limitations, why not, have fun, and give it a go, ultimately, it might work out great 🥰 

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