my boyfriend
he’s starting to reply late and gave me dry text, i dont know if he lose interest or hes just tired? hes not a morning person, and waking up in the morning make him feel sad? then he would give me short reply. but when our conversation end, hes always trying to start a new topic. ive tried asking him abt how he feel and so on.. but he said hes okay… can someone tell me what can i do in this situation?
@kaeyaalberich I think we need more information. Can you tell us more about it?
we are in ldr. never met each other before, he jst start being dry and all. u might think im overthinking or what but ahahah i think hes not interested in me anymore. tbh at this point i jst want to know what can i do to ask for a break up. but i still like him. he even left me on delivered today 😍😍
@kaeyaalberich Sooo do I understand correctly you want to end the relationship?
i dont want to do that, i still like him. this is the first relationship i want to work. no other boys have made me feel like this. ive always self sabotage myself in talking stage. but with him its different. but if he keeps acting like this, ill jst go with what he want. ill do anything for him ahhhahaah, im cooked.
@kaeyaalberich all right. I would suggest you send him a message where you explain how you feel and ask what is going on. It can be something like:
Hi, can we talk a little please? I feel like we don't spend a lot of time together lately and I don't know what's going on. I miss you and talking to you. Is something wrong? Did something happen? When you leave me on read for hours and then reply with a short sentence, I feel so disconnected and alone. If there is something going on, or you don't want to continue this relationship, please be honest with me and let me know. I want to be here for you and support you in your challenges. I love you and care about you and I want this relationship to work, but i need you to talk to me, otherwise I feel anxious and don't know where I stand. Please let me know what is going on.
