seeking support
nakmor
October 26th, 2023
okay so, it's me, kayla. if you don't remember what i was asking advice on, it was about what to do in a secrect relationship with stirct parents. i explained how he means everything to me and i can't lose him, i won't. i turn 17 soon, and it's just a year until i'm free. i just want to know what to do until then. how do i survive? we communicate a lot through snap, but i can't talk to him at home..
CupidtheKingofLove
October 26th, 2023
@nakmor
Hello Kayla. Hope your having a good day / night and thanking for reaching out on 7 cups.
I can relate with you on having strict parents and online dating while hiding it and trying not to get caught. I been doing the same too for a while so can imagine how hard it is for you to manage this.Even for me it gets too much but somehow am managing it.
I am glad that you love him and are willing to go through this mode of dating long distance and online too. Its not an easy journey but if you can bear it out for a year then it could be worth it.Some things you two can do, is to first talk it out clearly about your timings and making sure how to keep things until you can be free.
I know its going to be hard unable to talk to often but don't think about the year, take each day calmly and whenever you two can text do that while being careful.
I'm wishing you luck and best of wishes for you two 💖.