this boy
i just confessed to my crush who also happens to be one of my best friends and he responded, "i see. i would prefer it if we would remain friends without any pursuit of romance although if you need space i understand"... and hes being nice and i almost wish he was mean, like so i had a reason to be mad or to not like him. out mutual friend thought he liked me back. he was showing signs?? we held hands. he'd make his morning drive to school 20 minutes instead of 3 just to pick me up. he called me handsome. i dont know. he said he didnt have feelings and honestly thats fine im just confused.
how do i deal with this?? i dont normally tell my best friends that im crushing on them lol
@wyatt182
I admire your honesty.
Not always easy.
And it can be so hard, especially when they don't feel the same.
But he handled it with grace and kindness.
These actions towards you show at the very least you mean alot to him, so even though it's not the answer you wanted, it still means something to be cared about, that's not nothing 💚😊
@wyatt182
ughhhhhhhhhhh im regaining the crush........ im so peeved omg
i really like him, hes so pretty and smart and funny and tall and hes just so great. but it wont work out. hes graduating and im not.
I understand your concerns maybe try to talk to him and see what he says and maybe try to talk to him.
I understand your concerns maybe try to talk to him and see what he says and maybe try to talk to him.
@CarolinaQueenBee thank you for commenting --
i dont want to tell him again. i think it would negatively impact our friendship. over the time since my original post, he has become my main support system and my very best friend. i love him very much in every way but i dont think it will work out. he is graduating and going to college. he is valedictorian. i am only going to be in 11th grade. this disappoints me but i think its for the best.
