valentines day
my gf (they/them) and i have been together for about 8 months now. valentines day is coming up but i have no idea what to get them. they are not the super romantic type and kinda laugh at other couples who are. for this reason i considered getting them something pretty small like a dumb card or some candy
that was until i heard that they were spending a lot on a gift for me. their love language is gift-giving so i’m wasnt too surprised but now i feel a little pressured to get them something more than candy or a small card.
that said, i still have no idea what to get them :( i was thinking some better necklace chains (we have matching necklaces from when they asked me out but i keep having to replace the chain) but im not sure if that’d be too romantic for them?? they dont even wear their necklace that much anyway. im probably just overthinking it but i just thought id come here to make an actual decision before its too late
@cadenssocks
What about trying to indirectly ask them? Perhaps to go shopping together and be attentive or ask what would they like to buy. I always like when someone shows that they are attentive to what I say and it is great to receive something that the person wanted to buy anyway.
