versatileBirch9423 and sadcat talk space
@sadcat13 I apologize. The chat moved too fast and when you said "I'm making a thread" I thought you were makiiing a thread for you and those two dudes who said I was faking to go make fun of me or get me kicked.
@versatileBirch9423 no, i made it to get the situation to calm down because the room got unhinged and it was no longer a supportive space and it did no good to any side involved, so i decided it is in everyone´s best interest to move the conversation elsewhere. Sooo. The mic is yours. Tell me what is on your heart
@sadcat13 Yeah probably because I came for empathy and help and two guys in there had none and just called me mentally ill and a liar who's crying for attention with fake stories. Of *** course the room gets angry. Who tf says that to someone who's pouring their heart out over something they're incredibly remorseful of? Jesus Christ that's such a *** thing to do, I can't believe those two guys are allowed to be on here and interact with people.
I already told my story. I have hope that I can still change my fate. My fate right now is to lose the woman I love. The one person or thing in this world who I felt truly seen and understood and loved and cared for/by.
I have hope she knows I'm not a bad guy and I'm not dangerous and she will still reach out again.
I have hope that just maybe...she shows up at that cafe and answers my therapist's call.
@pinkWalker7121
Hi, I'm just linking you here 'cause you one of the only nice people in the chat you didn't treat me like trash so, thx.
@versatileBirch9423 yes i saw what was going on was not ok. They don´t have the proper training and patience for it as your issues are above the sharing circle´s room paygrade. They reacted very poorly and i believe they shouldn´t have said those mean things.
Sure. Just want to give you a chance to tell me all you want without having to juggle your story and an argument
@versatileBirch9423 i see you are going through a hard time and you had a gigantic mess up. And it is very good that you acknowledge it. A lot of people never get that far. Acknowledging a mess up is the first step on a road to recovery, and it is great that you have professional support now. It seems like a very fresh wound, this break up given by your strong emotional reaction