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4 Year relationship over

User Profile: D0bb
D0bb September 2nd, 2023

Hi,

My girlfriend and I have broken up. We were together for 4 years this September. We went through a lot, covid, mental health, death of a loved one.

I'm feeling so lost. She was my bestfriend. I don't know how I can go on without her. And it all feels so sudden. I just finished my dissertation, our adult lives were starting. But now she's going.

I resent my actions so much, I wish I had never hurt her. I feel so stupid, she was perfect for me, we had a great connection. I thought we'd be together for the rest of our lives. I thought she was the one. I'll always cherish her and the memories we've shared.

The breakup happened the other day, its still so raw. Sorry for the ramble, needed to get it off my chest. Thank you

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User Profile: KatePersephone
KatePersephone September 3rd, 2023

@D0bb hi there. i know how hurtful a breakup can be, especially when it was such a long term relationship. i am wishing you all the best and hoping you heal from this pain you're going through right now <3

User Profile: honestSail228
honestSail228 September 4th, 2023

Me too same I lost my boyfriend

User Profile: optimisticBike1721
optimisticBike1721 September 4th, 2023

@D0bb

Hey man, im just a dumb teenager but what youre going through is tough ykwis, I wish you all the luck bro, dont beat yourself up about this

User Profile: D0bb
D0bb OP September 4th, 2023

Thanks for the comments. Really nice to hear

User Profile: ppac
ppac September 24th, 2023

its been 3 and a halt years since me and my boyfriend got together. we is now very mad at me because of something I did. He says he will not forgieve me. It was three days ago so he is barely talking to me. i am trying to deal with it. I understand so much you situation. we have plans for future, he is my everything, we do everything together. I cant even think about if he really decides to break up.

I wish you the best, find peace in youself and time heals <3 be strong. you are not alone. relationships are so complicated.... I feel you really.