Advice/Rant
I am currently in a Long Distance relationship with someone from across the world. I am 19 and he is 18. We have been dating for a bit over 3 months but we were “talking” for at least 4-5 months.. and we met nearly a year ago. At first things were really good.. he was so sweet and I was not very anxious. I had gone through some rough friendships and issues before I met him and suddenly I was talking to a guy all the time who made me happy and was generally very sweet. He always complimented me and made me feel good.. now it feels like everything I do annoys him and he still takes the time to sit in calls with me everyday for hours like we always did so I know he still cares but he just goes silent or doesn’t pay attention.. he does the things like sleep calls and etc that he knows I like but other things feel so off.. he makes mean jokes or mean comments and I have a problem of overthinking and being way too emotional. Recently he’s gotten very annoyed with me because I was emotional over everything.. things I don’t even understand.. I think it’s my anxiety but I just need so advice on how to stop overthinking everything… sorry this was a rant so it’s probably wall jumbled.
@itsjustabxx I was in a really bad relationship that I left a little over 2 years ago. I'm with a guy now who is very sweet and caring and sometimes he does this. And Vice versa. Sometimes I'm guilty of it too. & I find that most of the time I'm super stressed out or irritated with something. I personally don't think guys think how we do and understand why we get emotional. Have you tried like talking to him about your feelings? He may have something going on in his life maybe?
