Am I ruining this?
Hi! I’m 25 years old and have been with my bf for almost 6 years now. We have an amazing 2 yr old son together as well. I hope I do not sound silly or selfish but I just feel so Insecure about if this relationship will lead to marriage. He says he wants to but that’s it. My dad has talked to him about, and I have too. These were separate conversations by the way. But he feels pressured now, and I told him that I apologize if I am coming off that, I would like to know his opinion on it. These conversations keep leading into arguments... am I wrong for bringing marriage up? He talks about having more kids and even suggested we try for baby number 2 this summer. But why can’t he bring up a conversation about me being his wife? Am I not enough? I’m sorry if this is too long. I just feel like I don’t have anyone to talk to about this.
I feel single in my relationships too so don’t feel alone
I don’t think it’s selfish. It’s just how you feel and you can’t help that. Arguments are normal not everyone will agree with something. I suggest talking to him about how you feel and how he feels. Communication is very important in a relationship and I’m sure he’s getting the wrong idea. If you feel comfortable and want to have a kid then go ahead. Maybe you wanna layout and sit back and wait a little longer. I’m not that helpful but I do suggest talking to him about it? Then again marriage takes awhile and I’d say for right now be understandable and patient. It must be hard but I wish you luck and hope.
You are loyal, patient, kind, and loving. You are more than enough and sound like an incredible catch for a man who can just tak care of himself. You are enough and it will be ok. If you and him don't happen, that's on him and you will be alright. It seems like your dad would be willing to take care of you if you need it so you are going to be just fine. You are enough, it's going to be ok. With or without him in the picture.