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Am i being selfish

User Profile: millsx
millsx October 2nd, 2021

Me and my boyfriend have only been together for 6 months but i have been overthinking so much. i feel as though i have no memories with him... there isnt one time that i can recall of us having fun together or laughing together and personally laughter is so important to me in life. He does so much for me and makes me feel looked after always but im starting to feel as though thats not enough? we are totally different people and he doesnt enjoy what i enjoy which stops us from doing things that makes me happy meaning i have to do these things with my friends and he ends up angry that im always with them. I have mentioned it to him but he says hes happy as we are. I feel terrible for thinking these things and i dont know what to do. im just not as happy as i was before we got together.

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User Profile: Daydreamer47
Daydreamer47 October 7th, 2021

Hmm when you say you don't have memories do you all not go out on dates or dinners? In a relationship, I don't think you have to be identical, but you should support each other in what you are both passionate about. That might mean doing something he likes in exchange for him doing something you like, like if you like action movies but he likes comedies, watch one action movie and then a comedy... That being said it is hard if your partner is repeatedly not receptive to your concerns and trying to resolve things or compromise then it may not work out.