Bf doesn’t family
I moved two hours away from my job, friends and family a year and a half ago to move in with my bf. He gets upset when I want to go visit my family. He says I should just call them. They don’t come see me so why should I go see them. I miss them my sons are grown with grandkids now and busy so I want to see them. His parents live across the street and his daughter is out of town and only comes at Christmas and summer time. Should I be upset that he doesn’t want me to go! I have always went and he has stayed at home most the time only going for grandkids birthdays. Am I overreacting about wanting to break up due to this? There are other issues but this is the biggest one for me. My family will always be my family.
Your feelings are absolutely valid and important. He has no right to tell you when you can or can't see your own family; that is controlling behavior. I can't tell you what to do as far as your next course of action, but I highly recommend getting a therapist to help you self-advocate (or leave, if necessary). Good luck!
You are the most important thing for your family, And humans deserve first family then others, Nobody can care you, like a family person ! So all set your mind and listen to your 💜 heart
