Boyfriend vs. bestfriend
Hi, I am in a very conflicted situation where at the moment my best friend is not talking to me and she has blocked me on Instagram. Her and my boyfriend had got in an argument for the second time and this time he called her out her name and I didn’t say anything about it but instead just left the situation so she felt like I didn’t have her back. This is not the first time that they got in argument argument the first time she disrespected him and he didn’t say anything. I’m just very conflicted because I’ve apologized to her about how I handled the situation maybe I could have stepped in and said something. But at the time I was just thinking OK they’re arguing again let me leave the situation. She continued to walk over to me and go back to say things to him which made him explode. I’ve apologized numerous times which she seem to get over it and then she’s back on the subject again. And now she blocked me on Instagram and I have not heard from her. During the argument with me and her, she basically Talked down on me as a person said she was better than me etc. and that really hurt my feelings so I’m just like is this really my friend
It's sad to lose a best friend especially when it's someone else's fault. You can't force that friendship to work and you apologised so many times already. Maybe you should tell your boyfriend to stay out of that situation, since it's your friendship with her and he shouldn't have anything to do with that. If you feel like you're the only one trying to make this friendship work, then I suggest you to either leave or give her another chance, maybe try to understand each others positions, also your boyfriends situation. Maybe you could ask her to meet up all together in person and discuss it, if she would do that for you and your friendship.