COMMUNCATION
I have been with my bf for a little over a year and we just had baby. The communication between is bad and always turns into an argument. He doesnt like that I cut him off mid sentence when he's is talking and says that I'm very "disrespectful" towards him. During every argument he always points the blame on me as everything is always my fault and nothing is ever his blame. I do admit I get very emotional and have a lot of attitude and anger during our discussions. He now says I need to seek mental help because I have "problems" or our relationship isnt going to work if I dont get help.... At this point I dont know what to do feel or say anymore
@Elrosa
Congratulations on the baby!
Do you want to try switching to letters whenever it turns into an argument? With a letter, both can say everything uninterrupted and you both get a chance to review what you want to say, checking for tone and language used. Another advantage of the letter is that you don't get sidetracked trying to defend yourself against the other person's point before finishing your own point.
Thank you! And it's something I will def give a try because at this moment we are not speaking so the atmosphere in the house is very negative and awkward
@Elrosa
You're welcome! I hope it helps, do let us know how it goes. Good Luck!
I hope it does to because whether we continue the relationship or not we need to learn how to communicate without arguing for the next 18 years lol
Arguments aside, has your mood or behavior changes since the baby? Any rage? Extreme moodiness? Maybe check with your OBGYN. I had PPD (post partum depression) and PPR (post partum rage).