Can I trust her
A little history about this girl. I first met her 2 years ago in Mexico, she was 20. She had just broken up with her boyfriend of 2 years , but was still posting comments on her facebook about how she still loved him, whilst we were kind of dating. I had to return to my country and we did a long distance thing, but i could never trust her completely. So i suppose i always had trust issues with this girl. So to the present time, 2 years later i returned to Mexico. I knew she had a boyfriend, but we were in contact with each other. We decided to do a trip together, where she told me she had broken up with her boyfriend who she wanted to marry (the had only been dating for 7-8 months). During this trip she talked about having kids with me, and marrying me (this is only 2 months after breaking up with her boyfriend). I kind of didnt believe her, but it made me feel good. So i love this girl, and really care for her, but am i right not to trust her? I get so caught up in her past, and cant let it go and i dont know why. This is one of the main issues in our relationship. I know im going to have to return to my country again soon, so am wondering if the relationship is worth doing, as it will be long distance again. Any help would be appreciated. I hope all this makes sense
Long distance is difficult for me. If your love is greater than your trust issues and the difficulties of long distance relationship, you can continue it, but you also have to be open to her about this. If your love cannot handle it, better not to hurt yourself and your gf. Whatever you choose, it's your decision.
@Colin55,
to be frankly honest, feels to me like something doesn't add up.
She seems to just have broken up each time you meet.
Too much coincidences.
And telling you she wants to marry you?
Whereas she doesn't really know you, and had a boyfriend in between your trips?
She seems to be playing you, feels like she sees you as an easy target so she can get out of Mexico, get married, wait a bit and then file for divorce and get her 50% of your assets.
I would cut my losses, get real, and move on.