Casual dating getting complicated
So I've been dating someone for nearly a year. Since the beginning we had discussed to date casually. We both wanted to get arranged marriage (not to each other, to partners our parents would choose) and this plan was for after 2 years. Our friendship grew... After his parents pressurised him, he agreed to a girl for an arranged marriage. I know I have to go, I thought we had more time. I suddenly feel like an outsider, like someone is taking my spot. I'm having trouble understand and organise my thoughts and feelings. I do not want him as a life partner, but I want to be with him.
I think it’s the fact you know your not going to have him like you did. It’s going to change. Once you get used to a routine it’s hard to switch.
@dragonball4lyfe yeah I expected atleast 2-3 months so I can sort my emotions towards this change but everything happened within a month. It was so abrupt I feel disoriented right now and I've been feeling really low for the past few days and that is affecting my work, which I really cannot afford at the moment.
Would you have any suggestions as to how I can beat all this emotions or methods to deal with it?
I’m not sure there’s a answer because everyone copes in their own way. I blast music that relate to my emotions and sing my heart out. Watch movies and I crochet I love it now but I depend on it a lot to get through things. You can do it anywhere
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