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Did he break my trust?

User Profile: intellectualNectarine
intellectualNectarine July 19th, 2021

He always said I can trust him and that he is loyal. I did and I have always believed him. I broke up with him. He kept on pushing me away saying he needs time. But he's being rude and it makes me upset and he blames me for being upset because I'm just doing drama. I'm tired of his mistreatment and I know I deserve better. But I'm so confused. Why did he push me away? What happened to the great guy I love? I noticed that recently (before the breakup) the girl he used to love came back and I learned that he started talking with her. I noticed that he became more active on this one social media platform in which she only uses. He refuse to talk to me but starts a conversation with this girl. Did he push me away because there's someone else?

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User Profile: Hellodavid
Hellodavid July 19th, 2021

I dont know the entire story or both sides to this but maybe he wasnt ready for something serious... years ago i did the same thing to my ex. I pushed her away and broke it off because she kept on pushing for marriage. And i just couldn't see my self with that person for the rest of my life. Turns out i was right. Im so much happier now. Things will get better soon

User Profile: intellectualNectarine
intellectualNectarine OP July 19th, 2021

I didn't push him for marriage or big decision or anything. He just stopped treating me how he used to and blames me for it. I just wish he told me the real reason instead of giving me mixed signals and put the decision on me to break things off.