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User Profile: RainingAlways
RainingAlways February 23rd, 2022

My husband meets up occasionally one to one with his university female friend for dinner. I dun really feel good abt it. He has introduced me to her before. Is it normal tt he goes out to have dinner with a female friend one to one?

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User Profile: victorwu3
victorwu3 February 23rd, 2022

@RainingAlways

Hi, I can totally understand what you're feeling right now. It's important to respect boundaries while clearing this up, or a misunderstanding can happen. It would be a good idea to talk to him about it, or perhaps even meet each other and you guys can spend some time together. I don't think you should worry too much about this. I think this is pretty normal and maybe they simply are just good friends. You can ask yourself these questions:

How often do they meet up? Where do they go? How does he respond when asked about her?

If something fishy is going on you can probably tell. Trust in yourself. Best wishes!


User Profile: SupportiveMemory2727
SupportiveMemory2727 February 23rd, 2022

This can be very common and completely harmless. That being said, if you consider the one fact you’re sure about, it’s that you don’t feel good about their dinners alone.

Have you talked to your husband about how you feel