Getting back together and dealing with things he did while we broke up
Me and my fiancé separated for 3 months. In that time he had slept with other people. I am struggling with this internally and sometimes I’ll ask questions regarding it and it irritates him. It’s gendering our relationship when we are suppose to be starting over. I just don’t know how to cope with it sometimes.
@adventurousDrum6341,
It's hard to forget something when it made a lasting impact on you. It sounds like what he did hurts you and makes you question him even though you two weren't together at that time. It also seems like he doesn't understand that or even want to deal with it.
You're strong in deciding to take him back and trying to cope with all of this. If you decide that he's still worth it, then it just might take time for you to forget what he's done. It also might help to make new positive memories with him.
