Having trouble meeting someone
Issue is pretty much self-explanatory. I have a small social circle (mainly comprised of work friends and friends growing up). I am however a successful/nice person with a stable job and personal life. I've tried everything from online dating, too going out and trying to meet people and nothing is working. This has been difficult to bear; so I am here searching for some answers/feedback. Thanks for any input/advice 👍
I too face this challenge. I am working on healing myself and growing as a person. I focus on connecting with like minded individuals. however, I am open to various types of new connections. Be open... Do things that you enjoy and be found where you are.
I envy you all who have someone in your life you are very lucky unlike me who is 27 years old and still a virgin because I am ugly and if that makes me "sexist" then so be it.
@Rchfish17
As I approach my 7th decade I've realized that the times I've felt the way u described were always the times I was disconnected from my inner/true self. This disconnection caused the exact same results u described because people r very sensitive to this n shy away from it.
This situation, if applicable to you, is "normal or average" in western societies which do little or nothing to help us live from the Inside-out. 4 example I had no training ,education etc in knowing if I even had an Inside, n had to find n nourish it myself.
My suggestion is to consider stepping back from all non effective activities n look into Why r they not yielding the results u want. Better yet, cancel the whole thing n start over fresh. Allow yourself to update, cancel or revamp your social plans n intentions n invite a deeper Awareness in. Changing your Focus from Out to In will provide the Path.
Best to you.
