He is not talking to me for 4 days now
I have a boyfriend, we do talk everyday since its pandemic so we are not allowed to go out of the house and see each other. I recently called him out because of our relationship i have said that "why does it always have that im the only one putting an effort in our relationship" then he just ignored me right away until now, what can i do about it? What can i do to help me get thru with the pain that i think he doesn't even care and love me.
Im sorry that happened. I have been there. I would say that if the relationship is one sided and you have talked to him about it maybe its time to reconsider your options. Relationships shouldn’t be one sided I’ve been there and if you feel like he doesn’t care or love you... you need to assess whether its a good relationship for you. Here’s the hard honest truth and this is going to sound like what everyone else always says but its true. If he doesn’t love and care for you there will be someone out there that will. Its may take patience. Just remember you’re important too!
I'm sure your experience is unique from mine, but I also called out my LDR partner before, causing him to ignore me for days. I learned this idea --- A couple can be compared to 2 GLASSES. One may be taller than the other. If you have the taller glass, u fill it up, and give your partner all that you have. Of course your love overflows on his smaller glass, so he's overwhelmed. Then, he also gives you all that he has on his short glass. But it doesn't fill you up. --- I guess what's important here is that we remember to be more understanding of others. All are doing their best. You love each other, there must be a little space for some shortcomings.
