Holding On! a hope!!

Life becomes tough! We feel suffocated. We have no direction. Or we know where it is leading but fail to accept it, clinging on to something that eventually becomes more painful day by day.
How many doors are to be closed?? How long??
When will this end?
Or till death, the pain will be a part of life, never to cease??

Or maybe we close the door but apply the door stopper. Waiting and peeking in. If a ray of hope shows up??
Then realise again that it is not worth it??
Who will determine what is worth it and what is not?

Here I am, writing today, my first blog on "PAIN"
So easy to say, let go?
I never believed in this letting-go thing. Never. Always hopeful, things will eventually fall into place. The way we say, pain never ends, we start to live with it. So why do we have to let go? Can't we live with it? What if this turns up from an ugly day-to-day argument to frustrations to another chapter of endurance and a beautiful journey?

Achieve a healthy emotional independence?? Able to love someone without being emotionally dependent, there are more chances that the relationship will survive in the long term.

People say, How can you be so selfish??
When we bear a child, we see him/her grow. Can we give our child to someone? I can't. I am selfish. Why is loving someone then said to be selfish?? And asked to let the person be free?? It is said, If you love someone, set them free. I never believed this either.
We did not love with conditions. Did we? Then why a condition of setting free and waiting to see if it returns?

When we say "IF", a condition is already applied. Is it not?

People tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else, because “the spark is gone”. No, that's not how it works.

If you want somebody to never give up on you and love unconditionally, then do the same.

Be the change.
Love someone when you don't want to. When they aren't the easiest to deal with. When they are hard to love. 🤍

My belief may seem incorrect, but this is me. Who loves a person to the core. People may call my love selfish, adamant, mentally sick............ But I can't let go. Rather, I will focus on areas of my interests that were somehow buried in the process of loving someone to such an extent that I forgot to cherish those along the journey of my life. And be mentally strong to love even more, without being clingy and dependent. Hope you all are with me in this journey of mine, where I believe in never letting go.

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