How to know if I'm making the right decision?
I am supposed to get married in just two short months. I have been very unhappy for years and have tried speaking with my fiancé regarding our problems. He always blames things for our problems but never takes action to fix it. As the wedding approaches, I am starting to get more and more afraid to marry him. He never does what I enjoy. Never hangs out with my friends and I have discovered the life we live isn't the life I want. I know I love him but I'm not sure if love is enough. We have had sex maybe 3 times in the last 5 years. When he tries to cuddle me which is very far and few between, I get anxious. Maybe I am no longer attracted to him? Maybe I see him as a best friend? I am so worried about hurting him rather than being happy. How do I know if leaving is the right thing to do? 😔
@Tashar13.......Try consulting someone who can help you. Like a friend, teacher, minister, therapist etc. Just put yourself first and listen to your inner voice. If I'd done that I'd be way better off now. Recently I started putting my needs first and wishing I'd done it sooner because I don't feel I lived my life for myself....never too late right!?. Best of luck 💜 ABB
I feel like most of my friends/family think we should stay together 1 because they love him but 2 because they think we're right for each other. I know their opinions shouldn't make my decision but it makes it even harder 😔 My fiancé thinks getting married will solve everything and I am the complete opposite. I don't want to get married and then have regrets
