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Husband Attitude/Ego problems

User Profile: shiawaseninaritai73
shiawaseninaritai73 February 13th, 2021

Hello, I decided to sign up here as I am so lost and feeling alone. To make my thread easier to read, I'll do bulletpoints of my issues with my husband.. - he is never wrong, even if he is wrong he would still insist that he is right. - he blames me for everything, from the simple things like forgetting our babies bottle to bigger things like I cant save money. - i'm not allowed to cry, and when he sees me crying he gets mad or laughs at me or blames my mentality. - he always pokes fun of my anxiety saying that I have a problem with my brain, and I need to go to a mental hospital. - he never listens to any of my complaints or requests. If i try to complain he would reason out and block me out. As for requests, he only listens to it if it benefits him. I have to bribe him sometimes to get him to listen to my requests. - he sexually harrases me, if that is even acceptable for a married couple. He dry humps me whenever he feels like it even with our eldest around. He touches me in inappropriate places. He pinches my breast. Everytime he does it, I feel repulsed by it and dirty. I asked him so many times to stop doing it, I explained to him how I feel everytime he does it but he still continues. Until I snapped and got mad at him, then he got mad at me for getting mad. - I feel like i'm not allowed to have my own feelings or opinions..I am never heard. - I always have to follow him, what he wants and what he says. - if i have something I want to say, I usually just bite my tongue to avoid confrontations. Because even when I try to talk, he would juat block me and make me feel humiliated so I just avoid talking back. That is all I'll be writing for now, but there are more... I just feel so alone. I cant talk to my family because they will biased and I still want to protect my husband after all this. :(

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User Profile: dragonball4lyfe
dragonball4lyfe February 14th, 2021

Hello, sooo I’m in the same boat, the only thing I do is keep my mouth shut and do what I’m told or expected. My husband has like old mentality a man has his role and a wife has hers. So I do my role and take the bullshit. If my husband does any inappropriate stuff like dry humping the only thing that stops it is if we go have sex and he chills out

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User Profile: shiawaseninaritai73
shiawaseninaritai73 OP February 14th, 2021

Omg, is it wrong of me to say im so happy that youre the same as me and im not alone? Is this like the norm with couples? 😔😔 I can relate so much in how shutting your mouth is the best choice, and taking the bullshit... Dont you get tired of it tho? And pity yourself once in a while?

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