Husband was in another relationship the whole time.
So last Monday. I found a secret phone belong to my husband of almost 4 years. Looked through it saw some things I didn't like. Called the lady. Turns out they have been a relationship almost 11 years.
My whole relationship has been a lie. The other woman and I have had several conversations basically clarifying things for each other.
I'm still in shock which is fading and the anger is coming. I feel like I can't speak to anyone close to us and I don't know what to do. It's like a bad movie.
Not really eating or sleeping thinking about all the lies and stories I've been told over the past 7+ years.
He works a lot and would go help out a "friend" once a week. Which is how he was getting away with it.
I haven't really cried or broke down yet. No screaming or yelling just numbness
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. It’s not your fault, it is entirely his fault. I hope you’re able to leave him and start a new life without him. He is not worth wasting another second with. Perhaps you can talk to the other woman if she’s nice, since she’s also been tricked and cheated on for the past 4 years….
I hope you have someone in real life you can talk to and seek comfort from. You need to just leave and forget about that man as soon as possible, cheaters will keep cheating, and he seems like a pro since he’s been hiding it for 4 years… I can’t believe it to be honest, it’s crazy.
I understand how you must feel completely numb now, but at least you can tell yourself none of it is your fault and you did nothing wrong.
Hi I hope you are ok considering all that you must be feeling?
This level of betrayal isnt forgivable. I hope you find the strength to move on and be happy, find yourself.
I cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling right now but i do know how it feels to be cheated on continously and let me tell you there is light at the end of that tunnel. Find someone close to you only, someone you truly trust. Have a vent, blow off some steam. Sending lots of hugs and woman power <3