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I Cheated in Miami PLS HELP

User Profile: jpcassidy10
jpcassidy10 April 5th, 2021

Hi everyone, I am new to this but i need to talk about this with someone. i recently went to miami on a boys trip and i hooked up with a girl who is friends with my (ex) and another random girl kissed me as well. My girlfriend is furious and with good reason. I apologized to her parents and her today, but I dont know what my next move is. I love my girlfriend with all my heart I never intended to cheat on her but yet im here. Please if anyone could talk with me any advice would be great.

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User Profile: affectionateNest5633
affectionateNest5633 April 5th, 2021

I would say try to relax. You did the right and most important thing of telling them what happened. Now its up to her whether she wants to keep you or not. If she still is with you at the moment you can work to show her shes your world. Unfortunately, thought you are at her mercy. Don’t cheat.

User Profile: Lettrendsetta
Lettrendsetta April 5th, 2021

@jpcassidy10 I'd advise you to let her think what's the best for her. Having your other half cheat on you is the worst thing ever.

User Profile: jpcassidy10
jpcassidy10 OP April 5th, 2021

just so everything is out there i didnt tell her myself, the girls friends told her. i didnt tell her because she was on vacation and i didnt want to ruin it for her. obviously a bad move. we are currently not together and im just trying to find anyway to make her feel better or do anything better honestly

User Profile: affectionateNest5633
affectionateNest5633 April 5th, 2021

Then the only thing you can do is wait. Give her time and space. If you don’t you could possibly push her even further away. Talk to her once. Let her know how you feel and then let it go. I know thats hard but its the best.