I don't want to lose her
Me and my girlfriend have had fhe most healthy and the absolute best relationship for the last 2 years. This past valentines day, i gave her a promise ring. I had no idea that this scared her. It scared her so much that she has recently been acting up, trying to break up with me and telling me that she has fallen out of love. But she still wants to be a "companion". I don't believe this is the end, and I feel like I really just need to fix this and it'll get better for us to be able to move forward. This is the first problem we've ever faced of this magnitude, and i don't want it to destroy everything we worked for.
You should not change how you feel to keep someone in a relationship. I think it is important you guys discuss where you are and where you see things going. Do not put your feelings aside bc she has began pushing you away. You both need to hear each others emotions and respect them. That could mean breaking up, slowing down, moving forward etc. But you both have to be true to yourselves.
